How to Book a BDSM Session

Mistress Isobel Devi on a cozy seat in her library

Booking a session with a dominatrix or fetish service provider can feel daunting. Here is a concise guide on how to easily book your appointment with me. Note that this may not be the process other providers like, this is simply my protocol for efficiently setting up your appointment with me.

     This procedure has been updated to reflect my most recent booking options as of March 22 2021.

Before Booking

     Spend as much time as you are able to reading about my kinks, art, and domination style on my website www.Isobel-Devi.com . You can find ways to chat with me, watch my videos, or view my subscription only content which provides an intimate look into my scenes and shows. Be sure to read the FAQ on the landing page and note my limits when you are considering the type of scene you would like to experience.

The DATES tab will provide you with insight on my travels if you are booking for a tour.

To view my live availability check my books. You can now also request a booking directly via that calendar.

Booking

Booking is now as easy as requesting your appointment directly from the scheduler! Simply choose the appointment type and length you would like to book and take a look at the options available, then place your request. Note that this system will not allow you to book a time slot sooner than 24hours for dungeon scenes or 72 hours for weekend social meetings.

The old system, where you fill out an application and wait for an email reply, is still active. However it is much slower than simply checking my schedule ahead of time and directly requesting your desired appointment, as I tend to only check applications on Mondays and Wednesdays.

Bookings are reserved on a deposit first basis and your requested time may be booked out by another person in the time you make the request and place your deposit. It is best to send the deposit within 3 days of me confirming my availability for your request and providing you the deposit amount and methods to avoid this.

For new clients, deposit options outside of the scheduler are Spank Pay and Pantheon Pay. Other options may be available to repeat clients. Please wait until our second or third meeting to ask.

Last Minute Bookings

Last minute bookings are still possible through manual booking. To book with less than 24 hours for dungeon scenes, or less than 72 hours for weekend social meets, send an email titled “Time Sensitive – your name as it appears in the payment” and include a $40 payment via Pantheon Pay , or if you have been given previous permission to, CashApp or PayPal.
Alternatively you may try to reach me via paid chat where I tend to reply within the day, usually within the hour or less, Monday – Saturday.

Once Booked

If you used the online scheduler, you will immediately receive an email confirming your booking date, time and details. 

     If you booked manually, please wait up to 24 hours for further instructions. I will reply as soon as I’m able to with a confirmation and check-in instructions.

     If there is time between the booking and appointment and you wish to discuss the scene in more detail, contact me via paid chat or send $100 to Pantheon Pay and contact me via email or text my booking line to schedule your chat session.

     Please do not blow up my booking line or email if I’m slow to reply during any part of this process. It can take me up to 48 business hours to reply to communications that are not time sensitive, such as a booking scheduled a few days or weeks in advance.  I will always reply to time sensitive matters as soon as I am able to do so, without affecting any existing bookings. 

Abuse of my contact methods will result in a cancellation without a deposit refund and a possible booking ban.

     Check in for your appointment via text or email 24 -12 hours before. You will not receive the address until this step. Please do not ask for the address early, you may request an approximate location for commute planning purposes in advance.

Post Scene

If you wish to check in after the scene, I welcome polite emails to reflect on our time together or ask any questions. Texting is ok as long as it is done Monday – Saturday 10am – 8pm.

Mistress Isobel Devi checking her book in a latex catsuit.
Now where did those records go…

What to do when finances are a set back

Denver Dominatrix Isobel Devi and her slave enjoying a snack.

     Sometimes life gives us lemons and nobody wants to buy lemonade. This is not my problem and you would be wise to not bring it to my attention in a futile hope for a charitable donation for your cause. I am not a charity and you may have nothing for free. However, if money is an issue I have tasks that can be done in exchange for rewards in personal attention.  Think of them as slave quests.

      The very first thing you should do is follow me on Instagram and Twitter. Free, high quality content is uploaded there every day. DO NOT DM me unless requested to do so. Subscribe to notifications and engage with and share my important content such as schedule updates and kinky advice. 

My YouTube channel is also free and offers advice for latex enthusiasts like myself. Subscribing to it and engaging with my content helps my visibility, so even if you cannot contribute with more than your time and attention, others who can will have a better chance of finding me.

Polite, platform specific terms of service appropriate comments are always welcomed and a preferred way for me to engage with my community. Feel free to ask questions, if you are wondering, someone else might be too. As long as you are kind and thoughtful about it, it will be a positive contribution.

     Rewards for excellent virtual service will be awarded on a case by case basis. Ways to gain my favor include promotion of my work and projects, support in the community by recommending me as a professional to others, and  completing free tasks that aid me through my work days. Free tasks are always posted on My twitter. Types of rewards include permissions to DM, free niteflirt minutes, and custom photos or mini clips. 

     In addition to support, recognizing content of mine that has been pirated and reporting it to the appropriate party, such as the platform moderation team or myself, is a perfect example of being in virtual service of your dominant. This includes events and businesses that have used my photos without crediting me, tube sites that have ripped off my clips, and impostor profiles pretending to be me and marring my image with scam activity.

     I am grateful for any and all selfless service I receive from my subjects.