It is no secret that focused training will yield the most gains, whether that is intellectual gains, or physical gains, or kinky gains; Consistency is key! I want to build a strong community with happy confident kinksters, and that starts by offering a more easy to follow regiment with a targeted BDSM training programme. More activities will be added to this roster as the project grows. But I thought I would start with one of our favorites: Ball Busting.
My goal is to make you the ball bustee of your hottest dreams. Whether you are a novice, mostly inexperienced, or a complete wuss is not important. Only your desire to be kicked in the balls and learn to love it matters. Training begins at your comfort level and escalates slowly beyond your limits as you form new ones to surpass again and again. I use a combination of cognitive behavioral training and exposure therapy to get you the most painfully satisfying results possible. There are no excuses not to stick to your training:
Choose between 4 and 6 training sessions. Train as often as daily or as leisurely as monthly. Training is personalized to your personal fitness level and limitations. No alterations or reschedules.
Taking a kick to the groin for a woman is the epitome of manliness by many accounts. What can ooze more stoic masculinity than accepting her gift with honor and gratitude? A crack to the nuts is a blessing, like a sensual kiss from the angel of death. The stronger the wave of her powerful blow washing through you, the deeper and more satisfying the pleasure I receive from it.
So what is your ultimate gift to a woman? An ultimate sacrifice, though tantalizing to the mind and soul, offers little in longevity to your commitment in My sadistic satisfaction. I want your balls, but I want them attached to you with every nerve ending still tragically alive and suffering for me. If I shall be spoiled with a fine pleasure like breaking your balls, they are to heal quickly so that I may indulge frequently and more viciously each time. The more agony your voice betrays while I toy with you, the more compelling the urge to let my eyes roll back, enraptured by the power your misery supplies me with.
I will break you, but only so much so that I can break you again and again. When your vision betrays you, my foot will be there to remind your balls where the floor is. No cigarette is required for me to grind my heel into the concrete, your scrotum will do. It flattens so nicely under my platform heels after all. If only you deserved to feel my bare foot’s devastation, but I have to be certain there will be no attempts to escape from between my toes first. Some joyful stomps should set you up for success and good behavior.
Every scar you earn from me will add to your worth in my stable. Like shining medals lining a submissive uniform, my marks will award those brave enough to take on a life of sacrifice to woman. How far are you prepared to go with Me?
Social nuances can be perplexing. We all want to be seen, heard, understood, and hopefully liked. But how those prizes are earned can vary greatly between different groups and individuals. Every person is unique, and has their own personal preferences, making socializing in unfamiliar spaces a nebulous undertaking. BDSM, especially when mindfully practiced, can lift a lot of this fog. Do you yearn to be good and earn all the head pats?
Good behaviors start with good intentions, but so do a lot of terrible mistakes so don’t stop now, we are just getting to the good part, the part where your hopes and dreams begin their journey to realization. I only speak for myself with this collection of thoughts, but it is worth noting that some of my peers have shared my sentiments on what constitutes a good boy, girl, pet, slave, client, and human. All of the following topics begin with a few minutes, or more if you should be feeling extra cautious, of thoughtful contemplation. Is your request clear and concise? Is it a reasonable ask of the addressee? Have you offered anything of equal or greater value in exchange for their attention and help?
Here are what I consider good behaviors.
In my robust internet dweller experience, some 24 years and two thirds of my life online, this is one of the trickiest undertakings. Here you are in front of the world wide web, vying for the attention of some person or people, me maybe. How do you stand out in a good way?
First make an effort to appear genuine. There is no need to put out any personal or sensitive information, you can be anonymous from your civilian persona, but also known online for being a good intentioned person. Always fill out your social media profiles as honestly as you can, giving people a glimpse of your personality, so they can decide if they would like to get to know you better.
Make an effort to always contribute positive or helpful things to conversations. Sadly that arsenal of dad jokes is not going to work in many cases. If it is not helpful or uplifting, pass on making the comment.
Be patient. People are skeptical, and busy. It takes time to build a good reputation, and no time at all to trash one you have worked hard on. Find understanding that your light will eventually be seen by all who should be looking for its warmth in time.
Things to avoid:
Airing out personal drama.
Trying to have free kinky chat with people in post comments.
Making emotional commentary on topics outside of your expertise.
Attacking people over petty personal beliefs and preferences.
Bringing politics into anything without a very good reason.
Cherry picking statements to get attention for something irrelevant.
Let us make this a little more personal. You are writing an email to me for the first time ever and you really want to make a good impression so that I can be excited to reply back as soon as possible. Here are some writing behaviors I find very attractive:
Speak in complete sentences and with proper grammar. Please do not abbreviate anything in your correspondences and double check emails for typos and auto-correct issues prior to hitting send. I have no way of knowing what you meant, only what I see written by you. Seeing a well written email with all pertinent information included gives me confidence that our interactions will be easy and pleasant, and starts our relationship on a healthy note.
Send one email at a time. If I am traveling or preoccupied with existing projects it may take me up to two days to respond. Send a gentle reminder if it has been a few days and you feel your correspondence may have slipped through the cracks.
What about when you are booking a session? Are there ways you can shine as an applicant? If you are writing an email to request a booking the following tips could provide you the leverage you are seeking:
Only use email or the scheduler to book. I have locked most of my social media DMs to save those feeble to temptation, but do have some social media accounts where this is not convenient or possible. Do not take this as an invitation to stray from the rules. Make a good impression and inquire for sessions only via email or my online scheduling forms.
Tell me a little bit about yourself. But do not get too carried away writing a whole life story. The things I would like to know about include your interests, brief recounts from previous sessions and kinky scenes, Mistresses you have served in the past, and any limitations you are operating under. Try to keep your composition within a few paragraphs. Getting to know each-other in depth little by little, and through experience versus autobiography is deeply satisfying.
Leave graphic topics out of your first point of contact. Keeping your first point of contact concise is key. Getting into the nitty-gritty details of past adventures can be read as an attempt to initiate un-consented-to play through text and is generally regarded as rude. If a preemptive discussion is desired or needed, contact me via sextpanther or niteflirt to discuss in detail. Note that the exchange of money for penetrative activities, such as strap-on, is illegal in all states where sex for money is illegal. Talking about your fantasy on the phone however, is not. So feel free to call or text and discuss your kink with me in a safe space.
Once an invitation to book has been extended you will also be presented with deposit methods to secure your booking. It shows preparedness and respect to clear this step as soon as instructions have been received.
Maybe in person interactions are your kryptonite. Having a clear plan for the meeting helps ease nerves and keep a steady path through.
Upon arrival. If you have arrived to an appointment much earlier than anticipated, politely wait until your appointment time, or text to check if it is possible to start sooner.
Once inside my private space an upstanding approach is to politely kiss the Mistresses hand in greeting. Kneeling while doing so gets you extra bonus points, as does kissing the feet. I love to have my feet kissed.
For the next few minutes you may ask questions and become a bit more familiar with the environment. Utilize this time well because once it is over, you are mine to do with as I please. When the time has come, place your envelope in plain sight, kneel, minding your eye contact restriction, and wait for my next command.
In Real Life
We kinky people are also normal people sometimes. We go to restaurants, shop at stores, and can even be found at events and venues having a good time living our best vanilla lives. It should go without saying, fantasy cannot intrude on reality and I would never approach someone I only know from the kink scene during their vanilla life and risk blowing some cover or secret. Likewise it is never ok to approach me or any other providers or public figures in vanilla spaces without an explicit invitation to do so. The correct approach is to politely make contact via an established method, like email or text, and allow me to make the decision whether I want to interact with you at that moment in time. Erring on the side of caution and sending an email or text saying “I saw you at that concert, you looked beautiful, I hope you had fun!” is a perfect way to address that newly discovered common interest without the risk of arousing suspicion. Extra bonus points if there is a gift attached to that note.
A perceptive little pervert may have noticed a theme here, be mindful and consider the positions others have in life when you are making a conscious decision to address them. Be kind, patient, and respectful. None of these suggestions require prohibitive skill levels or financial contributions. They simply guide you to showing the most attractive version of who you can be, so that you can enjoy the company of many other great weirdos and heathens, maybe even mine.
2022 Brings a lot of new, exciting things our way. I want to jump right in so we can all have more time for kink in our lives.
Here is what is new:
I have just unpacked a parcel from Libidex containing a new oyster hood, arm binder, and bondage mitts in smoky black latex. The steamy scenes these new items will unlock have haunted my mind since I ordered them in late November.
A Sybian was recently added to the Goddess Cult play space. You may request it for any length scene at no extra cost.
Because of high demand and the ever increasing costs to run a business I am increasing my rates to meet the national standard in professional BDSM services. The following is my new pricing scale as of January 1st 2022:
1 hour $400 2 hours $700 3 hours $900 … Half Day $1800 7 hours $2100 Your 8th booked hour is on me $2100 … Full day $2500 (12 hrs) Overnight $2100 (6-8 hours of sleep included)
*Please note that specialty activities and last minute bookings will increase these rates.*
My utmost gratitude goes out to every person who has supported my small business throughout the years. Thank you for investing in my art and enabling me to grow into the skilled and educated professional I am today so that I can continue to create wonderful, kinky experiences for the players in our community.
Starting January 1st 2022 I am requiring a reference fee of $50-$100 per reference issued depending on how long it has been since we met. Without this I will simply be ignoring the provider’s emails. Please note that this comes after me generously granting my time and attention to give references to people and keep you and myself safe for over 7 years. Many of you ignored my simple rule of notifying me when using me as a reference, especially with not well known providers. Some of you have given out my phone number, something I explicitly say never to do. At least one of you caused me to incur a very damaging stalker through a reference. On top of all those things, the references take time and energy out of my day, to verify the person asking Is a real provider and not a bad actor, etc… My time is scarce and I would rather be playing in the dungeon than answering endless emails. I want to help keep you safe, but I can only do so much in a day, so references are now a service that you will have to purchase, and no longer a perk of having met me. – Thank you for understanding
It is now possible to get a rush reply to your email! Emailing me on a weekend and need to get through asap? Make a one time $40 tip payment through my Pantheon Pay and write “Time Sensitive” in your email subject. Note there is no guarantee I will be able to look at your email in any specific time frame. If I am in a long scene with a client, I will check the email and reply as soon as I am no longer in the scene as I would never want to make any of my clients feel unimportant or ignored in session, unless that was part of the vibe we are going for 🙂
Here is what is coming up:
Colorado Black out dates:
February 5 – 9 I will be in Boston!
March 12 – 17 will be in Salt Lake City!
April 10 – 15 I will be in NC and GA
May 14 – 20 will be in Dallas and Houston TX
Rubber Barbie and Michelle Lacy are visiting me late February to early March. Double and even triple Mistress sessions with the three of us will be possible in Denver for a short, magical moment. Bring the slavery experience to yourself, right here in Denver, or be whisked away on a rubber journey through your wildest dreams, you set the limits. Limited bookings available between February 24th and March 7th.
One of my resolutions this year was to do more of the things I love best. So I have created a new calendar for those who share my fetish passions.
February – BB with/out filming $250/ 350 hr
March – rubber bondage, “Brain Washing”, and female supremacy and worship scenes $300/hr or $250/hr for 3 or more hours.
April – human ashtray and/or “forced” intoxication $200/hr
Have you dreamed of being at My feet? Have you creeped My twitter and instagram, enviously bemoaning the distance which places you outside of groveling reach? Do you spend hours dreaming of being smothered by My leather boots? I bet you do, and I bet it’s a pathetic ordeal to watch…
In the spirit of this Holiday I feel no connection with, I give you the exciting opportunity to almost worship My talented and superior feet, even if you live somewhere really far, and really boring.
Behold, a pair of leather boots I have worn many times, to many filthy deprived places. Yum:
My birthday is on October 9th. I will be turning 34. Such an occasion calls for wild dancing, uncivilized behavior, and pain in the male groin. Celebrate with me, and offer your body to be used for a sacred occasion by two powerful deities, Mistress Nicci and myself.
Starting at 11:00 and ending at 18:00 on October the 9th 2020 select slaves will be permitted to join us for My private birthday party. Double domination and group environment scenes will be conducted during this time for the following activities only: Spankings, Foot Domination and Ballbusting. My frozen chestnut heart wants to play fun party games like last slave standing for ball kicks, trample cat walks, and spankings administered on a single ass, and in a single day, record breaking. I might even award prizes if I am very blown away by your patronage.
To apply for an invitation, email me with the following information:
Your full name, contact number, all availability between 11 – 18 on the 9th, and weather you prefer to see us privately or in a group setting with other kinky depraved slaves.
References are mandatory – if you do not have a reference you can book a cam or live session with either myself or Mistress Nicci to be interviewed and receive basic BDSM training specific to our style of Domination and needs.
The special tribute rate for my birthday is 30 minutes for $300 or 60 minutes for $500. We will both be present and interacting with you for the entirety of the session.
The swing-set is my favorite playground item. It is the feeling of weightlessness at the ends of each swing that spins My mind into a serene kind of frenzy. As I gained air and momentum, My white dress flared up to catch the wind. I stretched My pale little feet out as far as I could shooting up and then back.
From way up high at the beginning of another exciting swing I spotted a man-boy approaching with his hands held wide as if to receive Me for a big embrace. He was statured like a man, but had the look of a boy; lightly freckled skin, perfect blue eyes. He was very near now, almost beneath Me, perhaps looking up My dress which had taken to streaming behind Me like a long angelic tail.
I saw his beautiful face arranged perfectly for kissing, and as My gondola of joy brought Me down to My cortier I dismissed it all for what appeared to be a target, right between his legs. It beseeched Me and I obliged, landing My tiny slippered foot right on the target. I felt the dull impact, like stepping on an expired wafer, against the body of My little foot. The squishy flesh beneath his crunchy gentleman pants gave way, almost enveloping its attacker. Simultaneously the impact sent him to his toes, his eyes widening to accept the gesture with stoic gratitude.
My seat swung back sharply, pulling Me back on course against all physical reason. From the pinnacle I saw him again below Me, waiting, and I came down for another bull’s eye, laughing with maniacal pleasure as I descended. This time he became air borne, his face of masochistic bliss even more distorted, smiling at Me.
I kicked the man in the genitals again, and again until his head grew large with pressure like a balloon and finally burst, propagating a colorful shower of marshmallow candy bits. Each little sugar morsel melted into a gooey frosting as it rained down upon Me and the playground.
A drowning sensation woke Me from My dream. Have you had any kinky dreams lately? Share them in the comments or if you are shy in a private conversation with me.
The smell of burning human flesh is not for the faint of heart, and neither are any of My other interests. Regardless, the moment of discomfort should be welcomed for the opportunity to truly belong. Bearing the mark of the Princess is no trivial matter; it is for the ones who wish to surrender all, truly, and forever.
My mark is subtle, ultimately signifying the exchange between Mistress and slave. It will not serve to expose, only to establish the devotion owed to Me by My subjects; a constant daily reminder, until the end. If you wish to become a branded slave, the application process can be started here: