Who could resist the charm of a uniform? Much less the attractive white ensemble or those dashing blue scrubs. Realistically our medical staff hasn’t been subject to objectifying clothing requirements for decades though, so the feeling is definitely cerebral. Whether you’re a fan of scrubs, a fan of being cared for by an experienced caregiver, just love feeling at the mercy of someone in charge of your shaky health conditions, or some other attractive scenario involving doctors and hospitals, medical play offers a wide and exciting variety of ideas to play with.
For me it’s the role play. I love dressing up in those unrealistic themed costumes and twisting that annual exam into a humiliating scenario, leaving my patient exposed and at my mercy. Do you want that lollipop? You better bend over and cough…
Favorites are not my thing – here are a handful of medical play scenarios that get my mercury rising.
Maintaining a healthy pelvic floor is paramount for a comfortable and satisfying sex life. The Center for Debauchery Control suggests annual pelvic exams for all humans with a vagina to ensure no health conditions have a chance to develop past the point of intervention.
A typical pelvic exam includes all basic health measurements, manual examination of the outer and inner pelvis, collecting biological samples with the help of a speculum and cotton tipped wand, and a standard breast cancer screening. Nurse Devi takes the health of her patients with the highest regard.
Life is stressful and complex. When the spirit feels deflated and unfulfilled, experimenting with sensation play can help revive some of the lost vigor. Needle Play is both exciting and meditative. A hand full of needles adorning the body will awaken the senses, but a beautiful spread of 100 or more aesthetically placed hypodermic needles have the potential to transport the mind to heights and depths only accessible to those willing to endure hundreds of tiny puncture wounds to the torso, arms, legs, and for the true masochists, the face.
Needle play, like all other play involving breaking of the skin, is not recommended for those with excessive bleeding issues or people with sharp intolerances to seeing blood.
That lifelong feeling of inadequacy is not by chance. Things didn’t quite wire up right for you from the start and the reason nothing has helped is because you got sifted into the wrong category at birth. Nurse Devi is here to help. Together we will explore options to get you feeling like your true self. Treatments are individual and include a range of options from lifestyle changes to full physical alterations that will transform your unfitting genitals into the ones you were always meant to have.
Not happy with the look or feel of your genitals? Consider beautifying procedures like urethral stretching, genital piercings, branding and carving, or tattooing. A tiny urethra can feel embarrassing and unfulfilling. With some diligence, Nurse Devi can help reach your most ambitious dreams. Let’s celebrate by sliping a high heel in there at the end of your procedure.
Urethral stretching is not permanent and after achieving your desired level of openness some maintenance will need to be done to preserve your new stretched out look.
We wish that all conditions fit into a simple box with easy to pin down treatment and medication options. Alas not all conditions arise equally and some ailments are notoriously difficult to pin down and treat.
Here at the Kink Asylum we take pride in our investigative medical work. With head nurse Devi on staff you can bet that any problem, no matter how bizarre and complex, will receive the proper attention and effort until a viable solution is found. Some of our methods may seem unorthodox, and even strange, but it is our primary focus to find relief for our patients any way we can.
Thank you for entrusting your health to our facility.
Ever have to keep a secret about one of the most exciting things that has ever happened in your life? Me either until May of 2021. It was a challenge, and I mostly pretended to myself it never even happened in the first place to curb the overwhelming desire to chat everyone’s ear off about it. I could really not, I had signed a non disclosure. But now it is out and I can finally share my amazing experience with you all!
It is likely you have already seen the show “How to Build a Sex Room” on Netflix, apparently many people have because it hit #7 on the charts last week. My excitement is exceeding my vocabulary capabilities right now and I am so grateful for everyone who believed in me along the way to this great moment.
Couples counseling is one of my most coveted professional undertakings. Not only do I get to experience the excitement and joy of two people at once, but I can help them grow together through their sexual deviations in a healthy and constructive way. The emotional reward of introducing couples to BDSM and helping them find the activities they like most in a safe way is immeasurable. So when I was approached by Netflix to help them film a docu series about couples wanting to explore their sexuality in the BDSM realms I was absolutely ecstatic and also very honored.
Working with Melanie Rose
As an added bonus this project placed me at work with one of the best in Interior Design and more interestingly, adult themed interior design. Melanie Rose was a pleasure to converse with and had a lot of foresight and mindful intuition in her tool bag. I could tell she really enjoyed creating these magical spaces for her client and in a way that was a big common ground for us. The joy of a happy customer who just found intimate fulfillment with their partner is special and she was not afraid to push these curious bunnies to experiment and taste things that are new and a little intimidating to them. After all they get a WHOLE sex room, there ought to be lots to explore there.
Self exploration is daunting, like most things with high rewards. Coercing these lovers out of their comfort zone was almost a prerequisite to giving them an adult wonderland in their own home or back yard. Melanie did a wonderful job pushing her clients to experiment with the unknown and precarious and introducing them to some of the exciting activities and scenes they can play with. Now that they know what is out there for them to enjoy, they can make a choice to taste from any and all the treats they wish, as much as they want, and as often as they like. They say growth begins at the edge of your comfort zone, and I do believe she led them there in the most fun and exciting way.
Working with Hannah and Wesley
I think my whipping scene with 46 may have intimidated Hannah and Wesley a bit! But after we were able to introduce each other they were very sweet and fun to play with. Through the magic of TV we were able to figure out their favorite dungeon props in no time at all. But in reality we spent a while chatting, laughing about silly and awkward questions and fears and ideas, and after testing out several implements and devices, getting excited for the stuff that made her eyes twinkle.
We talked through some of her fears around bondage and how he can work towards making them less relevant in their relationship and more accessible to them. We discussed techniques to enter intimate space gracefully and maintain the atmosphere for the duration of their scenes. A lot of BDSM is psychological, like playing pretend for adults. Not everyone has a natural inclination to be a good BDSM actor and player, but this is a skill that anyone can learn and perfect with enough practice. Who would not want to check that chore off their list?
The room Melani Designed for Hannah and Wesley is a work of fine art. It brought a smile to my face to see all the little elements of our consultation and tasting brought to life in such an opulent way.
How to Build a Sex Room
As a professional control haver, giving up control to a TV production company was very daunting for me. I worried about representing my community and industry and also giving the clients a productive and quality experience. So when the show came out I was up at 1 in the morning watching it and reeling with excitement.
Never has TV been more open and concerned about showcasing the adult industry in such a positive way. This is the series we all needed right now. The “sex rooms” are elegant and awe inspiring. They offer unlimited pleasures in exchange for your intimate imagination. I loved hearing Melanie talk about the importance and nuance of consent and helping guide coples to stroll further into their desires and fantasies through sensuality and communication. No drama and bs, just positive exploration of people’s personal indulgences. A breath of fresh air for anyone hoping to normalize the idea of sexual liberation.
Completing the modern family’s most decadent needs.
We are all complex, multifaceted beings. We have likes, dislikes, curiosities, fears, aspirations and the ambitious need to nurture and grow in all those areas. Intimacy, weather sexual or platonic is high on most lists. The thought of hiring a dominatrix to spice up a relationship or find intimate growth may have crossed your mind already, or perhaps it was timidly bought up by your partner and you simply felt too intimidated by the process to pursue the idea further. BDSM is not for everyone, and it can be scary to venture into the depths of your most guarded desires, but if it is an interest of yours, my personal philosophy is to try everything once or twice before writing it off. I write this piece in hopes it will guide you and your partner(s) on your journey to finding the perfect provider for your needs and booked with no issues at all; just like booking your next hair appointment.
Finding the Perfect Provider
Part One : Prep
This is a big task and can seem dizzying to a novice. Let us break it down into fun bits that are easy and exciting to manage. The first thing you will want to nail down is what you are looking for. Ask yourself the following questions:
What do we like for sure? What are we curious about and unsure we will enjoy? What are we certainly not interested in trying at this point? What scares us the most about this prospect? What excites us the most about it?
It helps to write these down and don’t get too hung up on details at first, you can always change your mind later. Make a fun date out of it! Sit down with the person or people you want to explore your kinks with and spit ball some ideas. If nerves or inexperience are thwarting this process, do explore some online resources to see what is out there and available for you. My best recommendation is to look for providers in your area and check out their social media, blog, and whatever else they have created for their audience. Remember, just because something is shown on a business website or profile, does not mean it has to be part of YOUR scene. It just means it could be, if that was your interest.
Part Two: Search
Once you have a better idea of what your ideal scene looks like you are ready to look for your perfect facilitator. So clearly time to hit the Google. But don’t stop there, check out the top social media sites too. You do not want to have your options garnished by the failure of a vanilla algorithm. Not every excellent domme is an excellent web developer, and most of us chose to build and host our own sites for privacy and flexibility reasons. Try a variety of search queries, as they could bring up different results, by pairing key words like “Dominatrix”, “Mistress/Master”, “BDSM session”, “Fetish Provider”, “Kink” etc with your geographic location.
Here again, a little bit of foresight is beneficial:
Do our interests require an experienced and knowledgeable professional?
This might seem like a silly question. Of course you want the most professional pro to help with your journey! But not all kinks are equally specialized. For example most providers who have undergone basic training can safely conduct a scene with easier activities such as foot fetish, erotic humiliation, or tease and denial. They do not need 10 years of dungeon experience to spit in your face. But if you are craving an intricate rope bondage scene with suspension, or the sting of a single tail on your back, it is probably best to carefully select a person who is not only experienced in BDSM but also adept at those particular activities. Look for examples of their work on their social profiles, perhaps in their fetlife account, and maybe spend $50-$100 on premium content of theirs where you are able to confirm that this is something they can help you explore, safely.
Are our interests covered by the provider we have found?
Most providers work with all genders but every professional is unique in at least some ways, so be sure to check their limits and services. Most established providers will have a set list of “do not do”s somewhere on their website. Do not try to push those, if they don’t do it, they will not do it for new clients, no matter how sexy you are. Simply find a person who does offer your interest.
Tip: It may help you to know that most North American BDSM providers do not mix vanilla sex, like hand jobs or any type of classic sexual intercourse scenario, in their scenes. For those types of scenes you may find more luck with an escort who also practices BDSM.
Will we be safe with them?
This may just be the most important question you can ask yourself. From privacy to physical well being, you want the scene to be enjoyable from the start until the finish and after it is said and done. Remember that the adult industry is unregulated, and even with regulated businesses bad pro’s are unfortunately part of life.
Signs that your choice is safe are:
They have been practicing for five or more years and have little or no drama surrounding them.
They have a robust social media presence, on multiple platforms. *longevity of social media accounts plays a small role here as we get disabled disproportionately compared to vanilla businesses.
They have a strong network of other professionals they work with both locally and abroad.
How much will it cost? And how do we pay?
This is a good time to ensure you are able to budget this service. As of 2021 the North American industry standard rate for full BDSM services starts at $400 for a single client’s first hour. Couples and more specialized scenes could be priced higher and multi hour scenes could be discounted at the provider’s discretion. Payment methods for the adult industry are usually limited by the larger processors. They may have specific process for vetting and accepting deposits. This information is generally available on their website to make it easier for you to plan and budget your leisure so make sure you take all the time you need to familiarize yourself with the journey ahead. I promise it can only add to your excitement and anticipation and remove any potential surprises that would take away from the overall experience.
Contacting your Mistress of Choice
Okay but we are still nervous.
Nervous is good, take as many steps as you need. Here are some examples of steps you can take to build your confidence:
Book a consultation – Most providers will offer a phone or cam consultation for the cost of your deposit which then reserves your scene. So it is free to consult with them when you book after. This gives you a chance to ask questions, hear their words and intent, and get to know them a little more personally before it is time to exchange power.
Register for a pay to chat service they may offer like sextpanther or nite flirt and ask them as many questions as you want, a la carte, for as long as you need, until you feel ready to book. Remember to only discuss your fantasy online, and not actual meeting plans as those are not allowed on chat platforms.
See if they offer a casual meet and greet scene where you pay for their time to just sit and talk about anything you need to get off your chest with no obligation or pressure to book.
Okay, we are ready, now what?
So you did your homework, discovered some new things about yourselves, found the person who seems most qualified and compatible to take you on a wild ride, and are beyond excited to do the damn thing already. Great, it is all downhill from here!
Now that you have dotted all your “i”s and crossed all your “t”s it is time to contact them for your session. There are two ways to do this which are vastly preferred by practitioners in the industry: filling out an application, if one is available on their website or composing an email. Just remember to include important information such as your availability, location, and interests. You may find the tips for composing an email in my booking entry helpful.
What to expect
Provided your request was successfully received and did not raise any red flags, such as you blatantly asking for locally illegal or unavailable services, you can expect an email correspondence back within 3 business days or less. This does mean you want to plan your experience ahead and give at least a business week’s notice, especially if your availability falls during high demand times such as evenings or weekends.
This is by no means an all inclusive guide, but it should help steer you in the right direction. Questions are always welcome. You never know when something you asked could become the next piece to helps hundreds of readers just like yourself.
Your lovely partner and I congregating about the faith of your immediate future. Models Charlotte Brooke and Isobel Devi.
My first tour through the Florida mid west! Sounds a little funny when you think of it that way. Much of my time here has been committed already but do not fret, there is still a few slots left to snag if you are just now finding out about this. My remaining session availability for St Pete is as follows:
Sessions
Wednesday March 10th – A single hour slot at 10 am, and 8 pm – 11 pm are still available.
Thursday March 11th – 7 am – Noon, and a single hour at 9pm are still available. Friday March 12 – 3 pm – 6pm are still available.
While in St. Petersburg you will have the ultimate opportunity of meeting me with one of my associates in sin for a fetish session. Fetish sessions do not include any nudity or sexual activities.
Goddess Indica Jane – My Smoking hot switch friend. She will rub her dirty feet in your face while worshipping mine. Indica does not submit to men as they are never worthy of the dominant role, but you can be bound and gagged in a corner watching me play with only her. The possibilities are truly endless.
Florida Fetish Model Goddess Indica Jane.
Indica’s specialties include: foot fetish and domination, fantasy wrestling, tickling, role playing, humiliation, smoking fetish.
Indica is interested in learning more BDSM so you can be the first to cater to her curiosity. Her limits are: Submitting to men, any kind of bodily fluid play, as well as all of the limits I have.
Miss Terra Mizu – Want to be overpowered, and completely dominated? My ropes are no joke, but adding this powerful vixen to your time will ensure you have truly no chance at all. We will subjugate and diminish you into the smallest most humbled critter to earn their place beneath our powerful legs and feet.
Florida Fetish Model Terra Mizu.
Terra’s specialties include: foot fetish and domination, ball-busting, roleplay, wedgies, tickling (giving/receiving), bondage, fantasy and prostyle/pins wrestling, karate domination, semi comp (must be close in stats), smothering, lift/carry (150-175lbs), humiliation, spanking , bicep worship, arm wrestling.
Her limits are: nudity by either party, full knock outs and any other health hazardous activity, full BDSM scenes, as well as all of my personal limits.
Custom Content
If you are too nervous or far away for to book a session, a bespoke video or photo set may be a better option for you. While in Florida I will be collaborating with the following artists:
Should custom content with me and any of these artists interest you, contact either me or them directly with your ideas.
Delray Beach Florida March 14 – 20
Sessions in palm beach county are conducted in a fully equipped, state of the art dungeon, with every toy, furniture piece, and option your kinky heart desires. The following dates and times are still open and Mistress Michelle Lacy may be requested to join the scene at her discretion. Imagine being special enough for her to say “yes!”
March 14 Open March 18 After Noon March 19 Open
True slavery experiences are optional for clients with a verifiable reference while I am in south Florida and start at a 3 hour minimum, $1000 per Mistress.
Florida Fetish Model Goddess Brianna and Denver Dominatrix Isobel Devi playing with their rubber puppy.
Denver Mistress Isobel Devi and her kinky friend using a man for their pleasure.
Denver Mistress Isobel Devi has a kink community group you can join.
Denver Mistress Isobel Devi enjoying some objectification and a cup of coffee.
Florida Mistress Michelle Lacy and Denver Mistress Isobel Devi preparing their slave for the day.
Florida Mistress Michelle Lacy taking a nice pony ride.
Mistress Michelle lacy in mid whip.
Denver Dominatrix Isobel Devi training a man to be useful.
Denver Dominatrix Isobel Devi and Florida Dominatrix Michelle Lacy are ready to turn you into a real slave.
Sessions in Broward and Dade counties are also possible with a day’s notice and a tribute adjustment for travel expenses. Tour tributes for basic BDSM sessions start at $400 for the first hour and $300 each additional per model joining the session. Deposit and screening are required. Credit card payments are accepted. My preferred method of deposit for new clients is Pantheon Pay but you may request other methods if a bank payment is not available to you.
Denver Mistress Isobel Devi shot by Kenny Davis Photography.
